I am NOW 60 years OLD - How am I live LIFE to the fullest?

I am NOW 60 years OLD - How should I live LIFE to the fullest?
October 16th was my birthday. I had NOT post anything between my last POST till now. It is because I have been BUSY. I was working on getting my Pursuit Of Happiness social club going.
http://www.meetup.com/CalgaryPursuitOfHappiness/
MISSION: LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST.
According to Action For Happiness: http://www.actionforhappiness.org/
For following are my NOTES and comments on How the Pursuit Of Happiness social club follow the TEN KEYS to HAPPIER LIFE according to the Ten Keys to Happier Living - Guidebook
http://www.actionforhappiness.org/10-keys-guidebook
The good news is that our actions and choices can affect our happiness.
What makes us happy has less to do with our money or possessions and more to do with our attitudes and relationships with other people.
Want to live a happy life and want the people we love to be happy too. Despite decades of economic growth we are no happier now than we were sixty years ago.
Re-think our priorities. A happier world is possible. Your actions really make a difference.
Ten keys to happier living.
GIVING: Do things for others
Helping other people is not only good for them, it’s good for us too. It makes us happier and can help to improve our health. Giving also creates stronger connections between people and helps to build a happier society. And it's not all about money - we can also give our time, ideas and energy. So if you want to feel good, do good!
Do three extra acts of kindness today. Offer to help, give away your change, pay a compliment, or make someone smile. Reach out to help someone who's struggling. Give them a call or offer your support. Let them know you care.
No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted ~ Aesop
What have you done recently to make someone happy or to help others?

RELATING: People with strong relationships are happier, healthier and live longer. Our close relationships with family and friends provide love, meaning, support and increase our feelings of self worth. Our broader social networks bring a sense of belonging. Take action to strengthen our relationships and make new connections.
Connect with people: Make more time for the people who matter. Chat with a loved one or friend, call your parents or play with the kids.
Make three extra connections today. Stop to chat in the shop, wave at a neighbour, learn the name of someone new.
People will forget what you said, people will forget
what you did, but people will never forget how you
made them feel ~ Maya Angelou
What helps you stay close to the
people that really matter?
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ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION

EXERCISING
Take care of your body
Be more active today. Get off a bus a stop early, take the stairs,
turn off the TV, go for a walk - anything that gets you moving.
Eat nutritious food, drink more water, catch up on sleep. Notice
which healthy actions lift your mood and do more of them.
Which ways of being active and healthy
? do you really enjoy?
Our body and mind are connected. Being active makes us happier as
well as being good for our physical health. It instantly improves our
mood and can even lift us out of a depression. We don't all have to run
marathons - there are simple things we can do to be more active each
day. We can also boost our well-being by spending time outdoors,
eating healthily, unplugging from technology and getting enough sleep!
Try to limit your sitting and sleeping to just
23 and a half hours a day ~ Dr Mike Evans “
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ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION

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APPRECIATING
Notice the world around
Have you ever felt there must be more to life? Well good news, there is!
And it's right here in front of us. We just need to stop and take notice.
Learning to be more mindful and aware does wonders for our well-being,
whether it’s on our walk to work, the way we eat or in our relationships.
It helps us get in tune with our feelings and stops us dwelling on the past
or worrying about the future - so we get more out of the day-to-day.
Give yourself a bit of head space. At least once a day, stop and
take 5 minutes to just breathe and be in the moment.
Notice and appreciate good things around you every day, big or
small. Trees, bird song, the smell of coffee, laughter perhaps?
What do you notice about where you are
and how ? you feel right now?
ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION
Learning how to be still, to really be
still and let life happen - that stillness
becomes a radiance ~Morgan Freeman ”

TRYING OUT
Keep learning new things
Learning affects our well-being in lots of positive ways. It exposes us
to new ideas and helps us stay curious and engaged. It also gives us a
sense of accomplishment and helps boost our self-confidence and
resilience. There are many ways to learn new things throughout our
lives, not just through formal qualifications. We can share a skill with
friends, join a club, learn to sing, play a new sport and so much more.
Do something for the first time today. Sample sushi, try a new
route, read a different newspaper or visit a local place of interest.
Learn a new skill, however small. A first aid technique or a new
feature on your phone. Cook a new meal or use a new word.
As long as you live, keep
learning how to live ~Seneca
What have you learnt or tried out
for the first time recently?
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ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION

DIRECTION
Have goals to look forward to
Feeling good about the future is really important for our happiness.
We all need goals to motivate us and these have to be challenging
enough to excite us, but also achievable. If we try to attempt the
impossible this creates unnecessary stress. Choosing meaningful
but realistic goals gives our lives direction and brings a sense of
accomplishment and satisfaction when we achieve them.
Take the first step. Think of a goal you're aiming for and do one
thing to get started. Make a call, fill in that form, tell others.
Share your dreams. Tell 3 people about an aspiration that is
really important to you this year and listen to theirs too.
A wise person knows which goals are
ultimately fulfilling and which offer
only the illusion of fulfilment ~Robert Emmons
What is your most important goal
over the next six months?
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ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION

RESILIENCE
Find ways to bounce back
Ask for help today. Confide in a friend, talk to an expert, reach
out to a colleague, ask a neighbour to lend a hand.
When something is troubling you, do something you really enjoy.
Shift your mood and bring a new perspective on the problem.
What has helped you bounce back
from difficult ? times before?
All of us have times of stress, loss, failure or trauma in our lives.
How we respond to these events has a big impact on our well-being.
We often cannot choose what happens to us, but we can choose
how we react to what happens. In practice it's not always easy, but
one of the most exciting findings from recent research is that
resilience, like many other life skills, can be learned.
ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION
Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the
last of the human freedoms: to choose one's attitude in
any given set of circumstances ~Viktor Frankl
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EMOTION
Take a positive approach
Positive emotions - like joy, gratitude, contentment, inspiration, and
pride - don’t just feel good when we experience them. They also help
us perform better, broaden our perception, increase our resilience
and improve our physical health. So although we need to be realistic
about life's ups and downs, it helps to focus on the good aspects of
any situation - the glass half full rather than the glass half empty.
Do something that you know will make you feel good. Listen to
music, watch something funny, get outside or call an old friend.
Try to smile and say something positive every time you walk
into a room. Notice the reaction you get.
Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look
back and realise they were big things ~ Kurt Vonnegut
What good things have happened
in your life recently?
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ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION

ACCEPTANCE
Be comfortable with who you are
No-one's perfect. But so often we compare a negative view of ourselves
with an unrealistic view of other people. Dwelling on our flaws - what
we're not rather than what we've got - makes it much harder to be happy.
Learning to accept ourselves, warts and all, and being kinder to ourselves
when things go wrong, increases our enjoyment of life, our resilience and
our well-being. It also helps us accept others as they are.
Ask a trusted friend or colleague to tell you what they think your
real strengths are. Try to make more use of these.
Be as kind to yourself as you are to others. See your mistakes as
opportunities to learn. Notice things you do well, however small.
What are your greatest strengths
? or hidden talents?
ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION
Friendship with oneself is all important, because
without it one cannot be friends with anyone else
in the world ~Eleanor Roosevelt
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MEANING
Be part of something bigger
People who have meaning and purpose in their lives are happier, feel
more in control and get more out of what they do. They also experience
less stress, anxiety and depression. But where do we find meaning and
purpose? It might come from doing a job that makes a difference, our
religious or spiritual beliefs, or our family. The answers vary for each of us
but they all involve being connected to something bigger than ourselves.
Feel part of something bigger. Spend time with children,
visit an inspiring location, gaze at the stars or join a club.
Be more charitable. Give others your time, offer to help
neighbours or friends, consider giving blood or volunteering.
Which aspects of your life give you a
real ? sense of purpose?
ACTION IDEAS INSPIRATION QUESTION
Act as if what you do makes a difference.
It does ~ William James “
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Use the Ten Keys to recognise what you
already do that is good for your happiness.
Try to build more of these ideas into your
approach to life and day-to-day choices.
For yourself
If you’d like any more information on any of these, please visit
our website or get in touch at info@actionforhappiness.org
There are lots of practical ways to use the Ten Keys to Happier
Living in our everyday lives. Here are a few suggestions, but you
will probably have lots of other great ideas too.
Set up or join a local Action for Happiness
group and get together with others who
want to help create more happiness and
less misery in the world around. Use the
Ten Keys as the basis for learning, sharing
ideas and taking practical action together.
In an Action for Happiness Group
USING THE TEN KEYS
Taking practical action in our daily lives
Use the Ten Keys to recognise how your
work influences your happiness and how your
behaviour affects colleagues, customers and
others that you interact with. As a manager,
use the Ten Keys to identify practical changes
to create a happier team environment. Share
them with colleagues and get their ideas too.
At work
Share the Ten Keys with loved ones, friends
and neighbours and use them to think about
ways to improve well-being in your family
and community together. Look for practical
and fun steps that could make a difference
and help make your home and local area a
happier and more connected place to live.
Where you live
As a teacher, use the Ten Keys as the basis
for classroom discussions or school projects.
As a student, suggest them as a topic to study.
As parent, governor or someone else who cares
about the school community, encourage the
leadership team to make well-being a priority
and suggest the Ten Keys as a starting point.
At school
GIVING: Do things for others
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RELATING: Connect with people
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EXERCISING: Take care of your body
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APPRECIATING: Notice the world around
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TRYING OUT: Keep learning new things
The Ten Keys to Happier Living are based on the latest
scientific evidence about what enables well-being.
Note: the first five of the Ten Keys are adapted from nef (2008) Five Ways to Wellbeing, part of the
UK Government Foresight Report on Mental Capital and Wellbeing.
DIRECTION: Have goals to look forward to
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RESILIENCE: Find ways to bounce back
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EMOTION: Take a positive approach
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ACCEPTANCE: Be comfortable with who you are
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MEANING: Be part of something bigger
Join the movement. Be the change
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Happiness is a deep sense of flourishing, not a
mere pleasurable feeling or fleeting emotion
but an optimal state of being ~Matthieu Ricard
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Action may not always bring happiness; but there is
no happiness without action ~Benjamin Disraeli “ ”